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Control And Dominance Don’t Go With Equal Partnership

by Yvonne Chase

Equal Partnership If you want to start a heated debate that knots women’s panties in a bunch, your subject matter should be the “S” word; submission. On a recent episode of It’s Not You, It’s Men, fix my life guru Iyanla Vanzant was the guest discussing the topic Commit or Quit with hosts Rev Run […]

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Ask Coach Yvonne: Do I Continue To Wait And Pray?

by Yvonne Chase

Waiting And Praying Last night after our weekly Twitter Christian Singles Chat, I received a direct message from one of my followers with the following question: Okay, I’ve always been told to wait on God when it comes to dating by the mothers of the church.  Okay, so I’m waiting and praying…no problem but then […]

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Ask Coach Yvonne: Should I Keep In Touch?

by Yvonne Chase

Dear Coach Yvonne, My ex and I had a horrible break up recently and I don’t know what to do about his family.  His sister and I were very cool and I really enjoy my friendship with her but I’m thinking of cutting her off because of my break up with him.  I don’t know […]

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Ask Coach Yvonne: Is It To Soon?

by Yvonne Chase

Dear Coach Yvonne, After 4 years of an off and on again relationship, I finally ended it a month ago.  Recently, I met a guy while out having dinner and he’s amaaaazing! We talked that night, exchanged numbers and have gone on a couple of dates.  He’s interested in a committed relationship and the feeling […]

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Are You the Marrying Kind?

by Yvonne Chase

In a recent interview in India at the Jaipur Literature Festival, Oprah Winfrey shared her thoughts on marriage.  While she’s been in partnership with Stedman for 26 years, they’ve never married and here’s why: I think that had we gotten married we probably would have been divorced by now. And he would agree. I really […]

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Out With the Old

by Yvonne Chase

  A girlfriend and I were talking the other day about her ex.  She still loves him.  He’s the best man she’s ever met.  It didn’t workout.  They’re still friends.  She’s holding on even though he’s moved on to someone new. In her heart of hearts, she believes they were meant to be; he just […]

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You Really Think He’s Into You?

by Yvonne Chase

No Pressure? During the Ask Wendy segment of the Wendy Williams Show, a twenty two year old young lady asked Wendy if she should continue to wait to have sex with a guy she’s been dating for the past eight months. According to her, the guy has not been pressuring her for sex (and what is […]

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Dear Daddy…

by Yvonne Chase

If you’ve been following my blog for any length of time, you’ve read my thoughts on the importance of having a father figure in the home.   You all know I love my father to pieces and some of you have even told me I talk about him too much but I can’t help it; he’s […]

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I Want Fluffy Pancakes!

by Yvonne Chase

A man wants his momma’s fluffy pancakes problem is his wife doesn’t know how to make them.  Take a listen and we’ll talk after… Expecting your wife to be like your mother in any way, shape, form or fashion is a recipe for disaster.  Your wife is your wife and you and her are a […]

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Enjoy; Don’t Endure

by Yvonne Chase

I received a question the other day from a reader who is 34, single, never had a boyfriend/real relationship and wanted to know what she could do to enjoy her single life and not simply endure it.  When I break this situation down, its not that complicated when you remove single and replace it with simply […]

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