Dating

Gayle King Doesn’t Ask If He’s Married But You Better

by Yvonne Chase

How Could You Not Ask? I just read the craziest thing; Gayle King, aka Oprah’s BFF, said it didn’t automatically occur to her to ask a potential suitor if he’s married. She found out the hard way that she definitely needs to ask this question. Unbelievable! How could you not ask if he’s married? Not […]

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Date For Fun Or Date To Find The One

by Yvonne Chase

Divided In Their Views Should you date for fun or should you date to find the one is a question I saw recently on Instagram. Apparently, many Christian singles are divided in their views on this matter.  Here’s where I stand on it; have fun going on dates and keep your “why” at the forefront of […]

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#RelationshipGoals, #BlackLoveExists And Glorifying Celebrity Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Idolizing Celebrity Culture Yesterday while scrolling Instagram, I saw the hashtag, #BlackLoveExists attached to a photo of Beyonce and Jay-Z. My first thought was, are you kidding me? Black love existed long before they came on the scene. Furthermore, unless you know their love, you don’t know if it’s love. We really have to stop […]

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Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Find Love “Would you hire a matchmaker to help you find love” was the question posed on Twitter.  The question was linked to an article in Marie Claire magazine titled, Why More Women Are Turning to the New Era of Matchmakers.  Apps like Tinder and others aren’t working.   A Date Is A Date A study […]

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Intentional Dating Doesn’t Mean You Will Marry Him

by Yvonne Chase

Your Purpose Isn’t To Impress Over the weekend, I listened to a broadcast; How to Date and Successfully Marry by Jimmy and Karen Evans, hosts of Marriage Today ministry.  The broadcast was all about intentional dating and recreational dating.  Here’s some of  what Jimmy says: “In recreational dating, people strive to be their best in […]

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4 Ways To Buy The Perfect Gift For Her

by Yvonne Chase

It Simply Does Not Work For You Ladies, have you ever received a gift that didn’t work for you? It’s a very nice gift and any woman in her right mind would love it however, it’s not your thing.  Let me bring it all the way home. Pretend You Love It Have you ever received a […]

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Celibacy, Purity And Up Front Conversations

by Yvonne Chase

Let It Be Known Up Front “There are some topics like purity and celibacy, especially in Godly relationships and dating that shouldn’t wait until being “serious” or “committed” to be a matter of discussion.  If, you’re willing to have a relationship that is pure until your wedding night, then let it be known up front.“ […]

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Sacrifice In Action On Christmas Day

by Yvonne Chase

ER On Christmas Eve It’s been 11 days since I’ve been in this space. Last week, I got a sore throat that turned into a cough that turned into a cold that turned into body aches that led me to the hospital.  My body hurt so bad that I thought something serious was wrong with […]

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Family Dysfunction, Thanksgiving Dinner And Joseph

by Yvonne Chase

It’s Not Always Negative She said, “I believe a couple’s ability to communicate in their previous family settings play a pivotal role in their future family relationships and its success or failure.” What do you believe? She is a colleague who is in a great relationship with an amazing man.  She’s concerned that his lack […]

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Kleenex And Love At The NYC Marathon

by Yvonne Chase

Ran From One Side Of The Street When my love told me he passes out Kleenex at the NYC marathon every year, I thought it was weird. Kleenex? How does he do that? What about water or something more practical? Well, I was so wrong. I joined him this year to hand out Kleenex and […]

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