Living Single

Fear Of Commitment, Divorce, And Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Fear Of Commitment I’m amazed every time I hear a man profess his fear of commitment yet, that same man has no fear of sleeping around with random women.  He’s not afraid of commitment; he simply doesn’t want to commit.  How many things are we afraid of in life yet we feel the fear and do […]

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Mike Colter Asks, “Do We Have To Have A Type?”

by Yvonne Chase

Sistas Not Feeling It When Mike Colter of Luke Cage fame made his first appearance on the Wendy Williams show recently, the sisters seemed a tad bit disappointed when they learned his wife of sixteen years is a white woman.  Then he made an appearance on the Breakfast Club where Charlamagne asked him about being […]

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Death Puts Life And Relationships In Perspective

by Yvonne Chase

Death Puts Life In Perspective It’s 5:24am and I just opened my inbox to a newsletter that captures the thoughts on my mind; thoughts that have been on my mind ever since I buried my mother on September 12th.  You see, for me, death puts life in perspective.  Death reminds me of the brevity of life […]

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Gods’ Timing Is Perfect In Life And In Death

by Yvonne Chase

No Pain, No Suffering What a whirlwind life has been.  In my last post, I asked you to pray for my mom who was gravely ill. Since that post, my mom, Allison Chase, took her last breath on September 1st and went home to be with the Lord.  I was at her bedside with my […]

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Loving Relationships Are What Get Us Through

by Yvonne Chase

Broke Down In Tears I’ve been meaning to update this space for quite some time now, however, life is moving at a very rapid pace. My mother is gravely ill and my days and nights have been spent taking trips back and forth to the hospital.  Yesterday while visiting Mom, my Dad broke down in […]

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All Relationships Can Be Healed

by Yvonne Chase

All Parties Are Amicable He said, “All relationships can be healed.” The first thought that came to mind was, well if all relationships can be healed, there would be no divorce.  Turns out we have different ideas of how a healed relationship looks.  From his view, a healed relationship looks like total forgiveness with no […]

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Speed Dating With The Holy Spirit

by Yvonne Chase

Share My Faith Earlier today, I saw a question on Twitter that asked, “Should Christian singles use speed dating?” My short answer in 140 characters or less was, Absolutely!” If anybody should use speed dating, it ought to be Christian singles.  Why not? I have fond memories of my time speed dating.  I sat across from […]

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Cheat, Forgive, Reconcile Or Bounce

by Yvonne Chase

Reconciliation At the end of 2015, December 31st, the last year of the day to be exact, I wrote this post about a horrible happening that I needed to forget. Back in 2014, I wrote this post about forgiveness; specifically, the Forgiveness Trap that has many stuck in bad relationships.  Tonight on Twitter, one of […]

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Significant And Single In Dallas And Baton Rouge

by Yvonne Chase

How Can I Be A Part Of The Solution? The events of last week had me stumped.  The execution of Alton Sterling in Baton Rouge, the execution of Philando Castile in Minnesota and the murder of five cops in Dallas was a lot to take in and process.  I wanted to update this space at […]

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Matthew McConaughey Was The Right Person

by Yvonne Chase

What Is That? While reading the current issue of People magazine, my eyes landed on an article about actor Matthew McConaughey.  In the article, he was asked about the time he met his wife Camila and why he thought she was the one.  Matthew met his wife while hanging out at a club with his […]

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