#RelationshipGoals, #BlackLoveExists And Glorifying Celebrity Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Idolizing Celebrity Culture Yesterday while scrolling Instagram, I saw the hashtag, #BlackLoveExists attached to a photo of Beyonce and Jay-Z. My first thought was, are you kidding me? Black love existed long before they came on the scene. Furthermore, unless you know their love, you don’t know if it’s love. We really have to stop […]

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Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Find Love “Would you hire a matchmaker to help you find love” was the question posed on Twitter.  The question was linked to an article in Marie Claire magazine titled, Why More Women Are Turning to the New Era of Matchmakers.  Apps like Tinder and others aren’t working.   A Date Is A Date A study […]

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Writers’ Block, Seven Year Switch And The Cure For Writers’ Block

by Yvonne Chase

I Have Writers’ Block Hello, my name is Yvonne Chase and I have writers’ block. Has it ever happened to you? Can you relate to any of this? You want to update your blog at least three times per week but don’t know what to write. You come up with a post; I did, but […]

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New City, Same Mary Jane – Season 4, Episode 1 Recap

by Yvonne Chase

Bad Decisions Sorry but not sorry, I can’t get with Mary Jane Paul on Being Mary Jane.  Season four premiered earlier this week and it took me back to season one. I couldn’t get with her back then. I gave her a chance in season two and three and now she’s back with more of the same. […]

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Intentional Dating Doesn’t Mean You Will Marry Him

by Yvonne Chase

Your Purpose Isn’t To Impress Over the weekend, I listened to a broadcast; How to Date and Successfully Marry by Jimmy and Karen Evans, hosts of Marriage Today ministry.  The broadcast was all about intentional dating and recreational dating.  Here’s some of  what Jimmy says: “In recreational dating, people strive to be their best in […]

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4 Ways To Buy The Perfect Gift For Her

by Yvonne Chase

It Simply Does Not Work For You Ladies, have you ever received a gift that didn’t work for you? It’s a very nice gift and any woman in her right mind would love it however, it’s not your thing.  Let me bring it all the way home. Pretend You Love It Have you ever received a […]

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Celibacy, Purity And Up Front Conversations

by Yvonne Chase

Let It Be Known Up Front “There are some topics like purity and celibacy, especially in Godly relationships and dating that shouldn’t wait until being “serious” or “committed” to be a matter of discussion.  If, you’re willing to have a relationship that is pure until your wedding night, then let it be known up front.“ […]

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Good People Will Die In 2017 And Beyond

by Yvonne Chase

Losing “Good” People Today while scrolling Instagram, I saw post after post from many who can’t wait for 2016 to be over. Some even cursed 2016 out. People are mad at all the “good” people referring to celebrities who died in 2016; Debbie Reynolds, Carrie Fisher, Prince, Natalie Cole, Tommy Ford, Muhammad Ali and a […]

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Sacrifice In Action On Christmas Day

by Yvonne Chase

ER On Christmas Eve It’s been 11 days since I’ve been in this space. Last week, I got a sore throat that turned into a cough that turned into a cold that turned into body aches that led me to the hospital.  My body hurt so bad that I thought something serious was wrong with […]

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Complete Satisfaction In Life Is Not A Requirement

by Yvonne Chase

Playing It Tough The other day, I received the following message from one of my followers on Twitter: Hi Yvonne,  I wanted to thank you for your post last week. I had been ‘playing it tough’. Acting as though I’m good with being single, even forever if that’s the Lord’s will. But I hadn’t admitted […]

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