Peanut Butter And Jelly Are The Key Ingredients To Lasting Love

by Yvonne Chase

Marry The Wrong Woman I had a revelation the other day. Actually, I’ve had this revelation for a while. Here’s the revelation, most Christian men will marry the wrong woman. Want to know why? Because the woman God has for you will be as different and the opposite of you as peanut butter is to […]

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Married People Should Not Take Advice From Unmarried People

by Yvonne Chase

That Doesn’t Make Sense “Don’t take marriage advice from people who ain’t married. That doesn’t make any sense.” What say you? Have you taken advice from an unmarried person? Would you? Why? Why not? Those words came from Warryn Campbell. He and his wife Erica Campbell are participants in the Black Love docu-series on the Oprah […]

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Face It And End It Otherwise You Will Repeat It

by Yvonne Chase

Face It And End It Rule Our Lives Last night while watching Being Mary Jane, I was reminded of the importance of knowing our family dynamic, patterns, and behaviors. When we know what we come from, specifically, the negative dynamic that rules our lives, we can face it and end it. Much Of It Has […]

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Pizza, September, Letting Go And Fond Memories

by Yvonne Chase

Stop What You’re Doing Today, September 1, 2017, I am eating a slice of pizza in honor of my mother. One year ago today, I laid my hand on her chest and felt her last heartbeat. I had just moved all of my boxes into my new place and was getting settled when that still […]

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The Crazy Things People Say And God’s Beautiful Plan For Living Single

by Yvonne Chase

Crazy Things People Say #1 She said; why don’t you have any children? I said: No disrespect to single mothers but I never wanted that to be my story. Crazy Things People Say #2 She said: Why are you single? You should move to Texas. You don’t have much time left to meet someone and […]

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Nothing Stops A Man When He Meets The Woman He Wants To Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Nothing Stops A Man Tonight I tuned into OWN to watch the docu-series #BlackLove and it confirmed everything I already knew. If I had to sum it up in one sentence it would be this; nothing stops a man when he meets the woman he wants to marry. Viola Davis was afraid to tell her now […]

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#BlackLove Is All I’ve Ever Seen And Known

by Yvonne Chase

#BlackLove Is Not The Norm When the hashtag #BlackLove came on the scene, I was disturbed by it. I wondered why it was a big deal. Why were we making a spectacle out of something that’s the norm? I soon came to learn that #BlackLove is not the norm for many and that is why it […]

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Three Homeless Men And Three Dollar Bills Changed My Life

by Yvonne Chase

On A Natural High It’s 12:23 am and I can’t sleep. I can’t sleep because I just came in from the best night ever and I’m on a natural high that all started when I asked three homeless men, “Why are you homeless?  Let me rewind the tape and tell you how it all began. […]

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Finding A Wife Is Not A Priority For Single Christian Men

by Yvonne Chase

Why She’s Single I’m mad. I watched a video by a notable pastor with a large following that pissed me off. Finding a wife is a man’s responsibility yet he puts the onus on women. Let me tell you what he said to Christian single women at a women’s conference about why she’s single: “Here’s […]

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Book Review: The Wellness Revelation

by Yvonne Chase

Journey Of Wellness I broke up with my stove this week. Yes, you read that right. From Monday to Friday, I did not use my stove other than to boil water for a hot cup of tea. As I continue on my journey of wellness, it hit me in my spirit at the beginning of […]

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