Live Your Values And You’re Bound To Attract Someone Doing The Same

by Yvonne Chase

Warts And All The most important relationship in my life after God is the relationship I have with myself. I like myself; warts and all. If we don’t like ourselves, why should anyone else? God didn’t make one mistake when he knit me together in my mother’s womb and he didn’t make a mistake with […]

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Gayle King Doesn’t Ask If He’s Married But You Better

by Yvonne Chase

How Could You Not Ask? I just read the craziest thing; Gayle King, aka Oprah’s BFF, said it didn’t automatically occur to her to ask a potential suitor if he’s married. She found out the hard way that she definitely needs to ask this question. Unbelievable! How could you not ask if he’s married? Not […]

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Date For Fun Or Date To Find The One

by Yvonne Chase

Divided In Their Views Should you date for fun or should you date to find the one is a question I saw recently on Instagram. Apparently, many Christian singles are divided in their views on this matter.  Here’s where I stand on it; have fun going on dates and keep your “why” at the forefront of […]

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Bethenny Frankel, Three Dogs, A Fire And Valentine’s Day

by Yvonne Chase

Three Dogs By My Fire Today is Valentine’s Day. Unfortunately, this doesn’t sit well with many single women. Fortunately, Bethenny Frankel is not one of those women. While many single women feel less than because they don’t have a Valentine, Bethenny says, “If I’m sitting home with my three dogs by my fire, there will […]

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Spiritual Gifts Can Save You While Living Single And Dating

by Yvonne Chase

Spiritual Gifts During my quiet time today, my devotion was all about spiritual gifts. The Bible text came from 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 specifically verse 4 which says, “There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord.”  Utilized On A Daily Basis Every believer in Jesus […]

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Close The Loop If You Want To Experience True Healing

by Yvonne Chase

Think Deeply Marriage and family are strong themes in the new NBC drama This Is Us and that is why I love it so much. When I saw the commercials before it premiered, I said to myself, I’m watching that…it looks good. I never watched until last week Sunday On Demand. While everyone else watched […]

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#RelationshipGoals, #BlackLoveExists And Glorifying Celebrity Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Idolizing Celebrity Culture Yesterday while scrolling Instagram, I saw the hashtag, #BlackLoveExists attached to a photo of Beyonce and Jay-Z. My first thought was, are you kidding me? Black love existed long before they came on the scene. Furthermore, unless you know their love, you don’t know if it’s love. We really have to stop […]

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Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Find Love “Would you hire a matchmaker to help you find love” was the question posed on Twitter.  The question was linked to an article in Marie Claire magazine titled, Why More Women Are Turning to the New Era of Matchmakers.  Apps like Tinder and others aren’t working.   A Date Is A Date A study […]

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Writers’ Block, Seven Year Switch And The Cure For Writers’ Block

by Yvonne Chase

I Have Writers’ Block Hello, my name is Yvonne Chase and I have writers’ block. Has it ever happened to you? Can you relate to any of this? You want to update your blog at least three times per week but don’t know what to write. You come up with a post; I did, but […]

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New City, Same Mary Jane – Season 4, Episode 1 Recap

by Yvonne Chase

Bad Decisions Sorry but not sorry, I can’t get with Mary Jane Paul on Being Mary Jane.  Season four premiered earlier this week and it took me back to season one. I couldn’t get with her back then. I gave her a chance in season two and three and now she’s back with more of the same. […]

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