dating

7 Ways To Be Comfortable In Your Skin Before You Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Comfortable In My Skin An article titled 10 Reasons To Be Happy With Yourself Before You Marry landed in my inbox recently. Seven of those things stood out to me. This post highlights a bit of what was shared in that post and how I’ve applied these principles to every area of my life. It […]

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6 Things To Do When You’re Not Going On Dates Or Dating

by Yvonne Chase

Actively Engaged In response to my post, Date for Fun Or Date To Meet The One, a reader asks, “But what do you do if you’re not going on dates?” Great question! I’m glad you asked. Below are 6 things to keep you busy and actively engaged in life while you’re not going on dates: […]

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Life Does Not End When A Relationship Ends

by Yvonne Chase

Flourish All Over Again Over the weekend I read an article directed to single men that asked the question, “What happens when you stay single for too long?” The article said a whole lot but here’s a bit of what resonated with me: “When you go a long time without being in a relationship, you can […]

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Live Your Values And You’re Bound To Attract Someone Doing The Same

by Yvonne Chase

Warts And All The most important relationship in my life after God is the relationship I have with myself. I like myself; warts and all. If we don’t like ourselves, why should anyone else? God didn’t make one mistake when he knit me together in my mother’s womb and he didn’t make a mistake with […]

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Date For Fun Or Date To Find The One

by Yvonne Chase

Divided In Their Views Should you date for fun or should you date to find the one is a question I saw recently on Instagram. Apparently, many Christian singles are divided in their views on this matter.  Here’s where I stand on it; have fun going on dates and keep your “why” at the forefront of […]

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Spiritual Gifts Can Save You While Living Single And Dating

by Yvonne Chase

Spiritual Gifts During my quiet time today, my devotion was all about spiritual gifts. The Bible text came from 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 specifically verse 4 which says, “There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord.”  Utilized On A Daily Basis Every believer in Jesus […]

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Celibacy, Purity And Up Front Conversations

by Yvonne Chase

Let It Be Known Up Front “There are some topics like purity and celibacy, especially in Godly relationships and dating that shouldn’t wait until being “serious” or “committed” to be a matter of discussion.  If, you’re willing to have a relationship that is pure until your wedding night, then let it be known up front.“ […]

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I Refuse To Date A Guy Who Doesn’t Have A Car

by Yvonne Chase

Keep It 100 The other day while on Facebook, I responded to a question posed in a group for Christian single women: “Quick question and keep it 100 with a sista: am I wrong for not wanting to date anyone who doesn’t have a car? Now I do understand that things happen, LORD KNOWS, but […]

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Dating Is Tricky For All Women

by Yvonne Chase

Angry Black Woman I read an article recently titled 18 Questions Black Women Should Ask All Men While Dating. Not sure why a distinction was made for black women.  All women, regardless of race, need to ask certain questions while dating. The lead paragraph of the article says, “Dating is quite tricky, especially for heterosexual black […]

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She’s Choosy, She’s Picky, She’s Single And She’s Okay

by Yvonne Chase

None Of Their Business The other day on Twitter, the following tweet appeared in my timeline; “How do you convince your family/relatives/friends that you are single by choice and not that you’re choosy or picky?” My response was, why do you have to convince them at all? It’s really none of their business unless they want […]

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