marriage

3 Bad Reasons To Get Married In 2018

by Yvonne Chase

Lessons To Learn Season 6 of Married at First Sight pulled into the station and I’m watching. For some reason, I can’t seem to get off of this ride. As much as I don’t believe in experimenting with marriage, there are lots of valuable lessons to learn.  Marrying A Complete Stranger Episode one introduced us […]

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I Finally Filed Divorce Papers

by Yvonne Chase

Filed Divorce Papers Divorce has been on my mind a lot lately. You’re probably wondering why since I’m a never married single woman right? Well, divorce is the breakdown of a marriage that two people couldn’t make work. Marriage is a relationship. Whether single or married, we have relationships in our lives that just don’t […]

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Christmas Is Not About Your Relationship Status

by Yvonne Chase

Jesus Is The Reason For The Season This time last year, I was in a very loving relationship. This year I’m not. I’m single. What a difference a year makes. For many singles, this time of year sucks because you don’t have a significant other. Well, guess what, as the title of this post says, Christmas […]

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Missing Tile Syndrome Ruins Our Single Lives And Marriages

by Yvonne Chase

Undermines Our Happiness Earlier today, I watched a fascinating video where I learned about the Missing Tile Syndrome. It’s a real thing that undermines our happiness.  Essentially, the video asks, “Where is your focus? Is your focus on what’s missing in your life or is it on what’s present?”  Miserable Situation Many singles focus on the relationship we think we […]

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Sexless Marriages Are Not Pleasing To God

by Yvonne Chase

Why Are Sexless Marriages A Thing? I’m lost. Sex has been a hot topic on the blog lately with posts like Waiting Until Marriage Does Not Guarantee A Great Sex Life and 4 Ways To Overcome Sexual Temptation Once And For All. For whatever reason, it’s a hot topic many don’t discuss yet somehow it […]

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5 Ways The Church Can Prepare Single Men To Be Excellent Husbands

by Yvonne Chase

Prepare Men To Be Husbands I saw a post on Instagram that said, “If only the church would prepare men to be husbands as much as they strive to prepare women to be wives” and then this post came to mind. The author is correct! Churches and people as a whole do the most to […]

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Waiting Until Marriage Does Not Guarantee A Great Sex Life

by Yvonne Chase

Zero Guarantee Are you a virgin? If yes, why? Are you one of those virgins who thinks waiting until marriage will guarantee a great sex life? If you are, it’s time to get a new thought. Waiting until marriage comes with a zero guarantee of sexual gratification in marriage. Motives Are Right The only guarantee that […]

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Ruth Graham, Dating A Game Changer And Transparency

by Yvonne Chase

Security And Men Today I woke up early and watched Joyce Meyer. At the end of her broadcast, she sat down with Ruth Graham; daughter of famed evangelist Billy Graham and his wife by the same name. During the conversation, I learned something about Ruth I never knew. Ruth felt abandoned by her father when […]

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Kids And Dating Can Be A Disaster Or Not

by Yvonne Chase

Dating A Man With Kids Over the weekend, I had a very spirited conversation on Twitter about dating a man with kids. I’ve only dated two men with kids. It’s not something I ever wanted to do because of the complications that can sometimes come with it. Harsh But True I used to always say, […]

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Spirited Comment, Marriage, Divorce And What God Intended

by Yvonne Chase

Spirited Comment Stereotypical Single Black Mother Today I woke up to a spirited comment on the post, Janet Jackson Could’ve Avoided Divorce And Single Motherhood. Read it below and we’ll talk after: Janet and Wissam were only married 4 years and a few months. She’s got her own money and will be just fine without her ex husband’s […]

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