relationship

Date For Fun Or Date To Find The One

by Yvonne Chase

Divided In Their Views Should you date for fun or should you date to find the one is a question I saw recently on Instagram. Apparently, many Christian singles are divided in their views on this matter.  Here’s where I stand on it; have fun going on dates and keep your “why” at the forefront of […]

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Women Were Not Created for Hooking Up and Neither Were Men

by Yvonne Chase

Stop Hooking Up Earlier today I participated in a Twitter chat about hooking up.  One of the questions was, “Is hooking up a way out of commitment?” My answer is yes.  Here’s the thing, women complain about non-committal men yet they don’t realize hooking up creates non-commitment.  Women can’t complain about men behaving badly if […]

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Ask Coach Yvonne: Is It To Soon?

by Yvonne Chase

Dear Coach Yvonne, After 4 years of an off and on again relationship, I finally ended it a month ago.  Recently, I met a guy while out having dinner and he’s amaaaazing! We talked that night, exchanged numbers and have gone on a couple of dates.  He’s interested in a committed relationship and the feeling […]

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I Have Decided To…

by Yvonne Chase

Resolution Time Today is the last day of the year.   Its “resolution time” all over the world.  People are creating vision boards and making resolutions around how they want their lives to look in 2013.  According to Wikipedia, a New Year’s resolution is a commitment that an individual makes to a project or the reforming […]

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Reality Rewind: Marrying The Game

by Yvonne Chase

Why Are You Marrying Him? Can someone please help me understand? I’m thoroughly confused! I watched Marrying the Game last night and got an instant headache.  Here we go again with the typical black relationship drama.  Been together eight years, had two kids and now we’re getting married.  That’s the story of The Game and […]

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Do You Need A Man?

by Yvonne Chase

“I Don’t Need A Man.”  That’s what a female news anchor said to Iyanla Vanzant on a recent episode of Fix My Life. She says; I was raised to be strong, independent and self-sufficient and I was told that’s the kind of woman men want.  I don’t need a man to take care of me and […]

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Where Is He?

by Yvonne Chase

I Will Settle Last night on Twitter, I tweeted the following, #Relationship…of course I will settle, but only for Gods best.  One of my followers replied and we engaged in the following conversation: Her:  I believe He has a plan for me but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t starting to worry about […]

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What’s Wrong with Me?

by Yvonne Chase

What’s the Problem? Last night on Twitter, one of my followers tweeted the following; I’m just really trying to understand what the problem is!?!  While she wasn’t speaking to me specifically, I felt the need to reply.  Here’s the conversation: Me:        With what? Her:       Me! I’m wondering is there a reason why every guy I […]

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Old Fashioned Dating?

by Yvonne Chase

Do You Need a Coach? Last week, while waiting to be seen in the ER, there was an elderly woman in the bed next to me having a conversation about dating with her relative.  These sorts of conversations find me everywhere and I love it.  OK, so the relative started off by telling her dear […]

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Work It!

by Yvonne Chase

Nothing works unless you work it.  Yvonne Chase Its Not Working! Last week my neighbor randomly poured his heart out to me about his marriage that’s not working then yesterday my dear friend and I had an in depth conversation about his marriage that’s not working and then today I read the current issue of […]

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