sex

He Must Be A Christian Was Drilled Into Her Head Yet It’s Not Enough

by Yvonne Chase

Drilled Into Her Head Recently, I had a detailed conversation with a friend about marriage amongst Christians. She married at a young age. The only criteria drilled into her head when choosing someone to marry was he must be a Christian. Well, the man she married was indeed a Christian and even better, they met at and […]

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Church, Sex, Virgins And Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Remain A Virgin Until Marriage One day during my daily web crawl, I ran across an article on Cosmopolitan magazine written by a Christian woman titled, I Stayed A Virgin Until Marriage, I Couldn’t Have Sex With My Husband.  How she grew up and what she was taught about sex before marriage led to her […]

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Is Scheduling Sex Super Corny Or Can It Be Super Sexy?

by Yvonne Chase

My Answer Is No In my last post, I talked about the frequency of sex in marriage.  I asked the question, sex once a week…is that enough? My answer is no.  If you haven’t read it, go here and read it now.  Some of the comments left on that post were: There are so many […]

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Sex Once A Week – Is That Enough For Married Couples?

by Yvonne Chase

Keep A “Yes” In Your Spirit Last night on The Preachers Of LA, Dominique got together with her first lady friends to catch up on life.  During their time she asked, “How do you keep your love lives thriving?” Myesha, referring to sex answered frequency…as often as possible.”  LaVette chimed in with, “In different places” […]

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Is Marriage For Everyone?

by Yvonne Chase

Is Marriage For Everyone? Last weekend while catching up with my great girlfriend Liza, she wanted to know if she would ever get married.  She specifically wanted to know if everyone will get married.  She asked the question, “Is marriage for everyone?”  My response to her was, based on what I know which is based […]

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Casual Sex – Is It Ever Really Just Casual?

by Yvonne Chase

Casual Sex Yesterday I participated in yet another chat on Twitter.  I tell you, you can find a Twitter chat on just about anything these days.  A huge portion of this particular chat was about casual sex.   Here are a few of the tweets from the chat: Casual sex is fine as long as […]

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Is Sexual Incompatibility A Myth?

by Yvonne Chase

WOW! What A Concept! Last week I was having an in-depth discussion with a male colleague about celibacy.  He shared his journey and I shared mine then he asked if my journey was until marriage and I said yes.  When I returned the question, he said he’d honestly never thought about it then said, “WOW! […]

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Christian Singles Chat Rewind: Better Celibate Than Sorry

by Yvonne Chase

Abstaining From All Sexual Relations Last night I led the first Christian singles chat on Twitter and I would say God was pleased.  I believe he would say, well done, good and faithful servant.  We talked about living a celibate life; what that means and how it looks.  The general consensus was, living a celibate […]

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Random Thoughts: Why Can’t Christian Singles Talk About Sex?

by Yvonne Chase

Hot Topics A few weeks ago while doing my daily web crawl, I ran across a site that had a very active discussion forum for Christian singles.  The variety of topics caught my eye and made me stop in to see what it was all about.  I added my two cents to quite a few hot topics then decided […]

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In-Laws, Sex, Babies and Money

by Yvonne Chase

NY to LA I really enjoy watching the reality show Newlyweds: The First Year.  Are you watching? I wrote about it last week and focused on the couple Alaska and Kim as they figure out what submission is and how it will play out in their marriage.  This week they’re still working out the details […]

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