Wear Whatever You Want Or Nothing At All

by Yvonne Chase on March 9, 2016

Wear Whatever You Want Or Wear Nothing At All
We are fighting to create a world that says a woman can do whatever she wants whenever she wants however she wants.  Let it all hang out we say.  Wear whatever you want or wear nothing at all.  If you got it, flaunt it we scream. You want to walk around with a short skirt up to your butt crack? Do it! You want to wear a blouse cut down to your belly button? Do it! You want to wear the blouse cut down to your belly button with the short skirt up to your butt crack together? Do it! You want to sleep around with whosoever will? Do it! We support you.

Repeatedly Exposes Her Breasts And Butt
If this is what you want and this is what you are fighting so hard to create, why is anyone up in arms with a wife, and mother of two small children who chooses to do whatever she wants with her own body? Why does anyone have a negative word to say about a wife and mother of two small children who repeatedly exposes her breasts and butt to the world? Why are you not supporting this wife and mother of two small children who shared a completely nude pic with the world yet again? Why are you not cheering her on and making her the poster child for teenage girls all over the world? Why are you not raising your daughters to be like her when they grow up?

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Why Is Everyone Mad?
She’s supporting your fight.  She’s empowered.  She’s liberated.  She loves her body.  She’s sensual.  She’s sexual. She wears whatever she wants whenever she wants however she wants.  She’s slept around with whosoever will and made a sex tape about it that catapulted her career and gave her a net worth upwards of  $85 million with a yearly salary between $25 and $30 million.  

Used Her Body To Get What She Wants
We are a material world that focuses on getting money any which way you can. This wife and mother of two small children literally used her body to get what she wants and make more money than some of you reading this will ever make in your lifetime.  Why are you all not celebrating? Why is everyone mad? Why are you not pumping your fists and cheering her on?

Attacked Her Left And Right
Celebrities and the general public attacked her left and right.  Bette Midler said, “If Kim wants us to see a part of her we’ve never seen, she’s gonna have to swallow the camera.” Chloe Grace Moretz said, “I truly hope you realize how important setting goals are for young women, teaching them we have so much more to offer than just our bodies.” Piers Morgan said, “I know the old man’s $50 million in debt, Kim – but this is absurd. Want me to buy you some clothes?” Kim had enough of the negativity and responded in an extensive blog.  Here are a few excerpts:

I am empowered by my body. I am empowered by my sexuality. I am empowered by feeling comfortable in my skin. I am empowered by showing the world my flaws and not being afraid of what anyone is going to say about me. And I hope that through this platform I have been given, I can encourage the same empowerment for girls and women all over the world.

I feel so lucky to have grown up surrounded by strong, driven, independent women. The life lessons I’ve learned from my sisters, my mother and my grandmother, I will pass along to my daughter. I want her to be proud of who she is. I want her to be comfortable in her body. I don’t want her to grow up in a world where she is made to feel less-than for embracing everything it means to be a woman.  It’s 2016. The body-shaming and slut-shaming—it’s like, enough is enough. I will not live my life dictated by the issues you have with my sexuality. You be you and let me be me.  I am a mother. I am a wife, a sister, a daughter, an entrepreneur and I am allowed to be sexy.

You All Are Crazy
Isn’t this what you all are fighting for? No more body shaming you say. No more slut shaming you scream.  Aren’t you all fighting to create a world of empowered women secure enough in their bodies to show it off? Did I miss a beat or are you all crazy? I didn’t miss a beat.  You all are crazy.  You can’t walk on both sides of the street at the same time. You gotta make up your mind otherwise you will create a world of confusion. Looks like you’ve succeeded in creating a world of confusion.  On one hand, women want men to respect them and not objectify them. On the other hand, women are walking around practically naked looking like a shiny object then getting mad at the response from men.  How does that work?

Wrong Messages
Guess what? Women aren’t supposed to be walking around tastelessly flaunting what they got for all eyes to see. Men will respond accordingly when you do and you can’t be mad at them.  Nude photos ought to be for your eyes only. Women aren’t supposed to be sleeping around with whosoever will and neither are men by the way but this post is about women and the wrong messages we are sending.  The walk of shame needs to return.  Bette Midler, Chloe Grace Moretz, and Pierce Morgan are right to be upset.  We have so much more to offer than just our bodies.  

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 Something to think about…

What say you? Are we sending mixed messages and creating a world of confusion?

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