A Closer Look

Hello and thanks for stopping by.

I’m Yvonne Chase aka The Single Woman’s Cheerleader; a Certified Dating and Relationship Coach to Singles and Pre-Committed Couples.  This blog is all about living a great single life and dating smart.

As a Christian woman, I incorporate a kernel of faith into each post. For me, I can’t talk about living a great single life, making smart dating decisions and marriage without including God in the conversation. He is the foundation of my being.

In addition, I’m a pop culture junkie, therefore, many of my posts reference reality TV, celebrity chatter, sitcoms, romantic comedies and popular song lyrics.  This blog meets at the intersections of faith, pop culture and reality TV. With every post, my goal is to always leave you with, “Something to think about.”

A few random things about me:

  • I’m single, never married and don’t have children. 
  • I was born and raised in Nassau Bahamas to parents from Barbados which makes me a Bajan-Bahamian. I LOVE my Caribbean roots!
  • My two sisters and I used to sing as a trio called The Chase Sisters.  I enjoy singing and I sound great out of the shower. My mother had a wicked alto and so do I.  
  • Eating clean, working out and getting a massage as often as I can are super important to me.  Self-care Sunday is a real thing for me.
  • Chia seeds, quinoa, amaranth and steel cut oats make me happy.
  • Cooking brings me great joy.  I love finding a recipe then going off to the market to buy the ingredients then returning to my kitchen to make magic. Sometimes it comes out great, other times not. My latest try was a vegetable crock pot lasagna. I honestly thought it was insane to make lasagna in a crockpot, however, it came out amazing and was delicious. Here’s feedback from a friend who tried it; “Delicious is an understatement. It is to die for. So tasty!”


  • A homemade acai bowl or green drink is a daily staple; spinach, a slice of lemon with the skin (that’s where all the Vitamin C lives), a piece of ginger, fresh aloe vera, pineapple, and water is one of my favorite blends. Try it!
  • I have 2 sisters and 4 remaining brothers.  Everyone is married with children except my oldest brother, sister, and me.
  • I’m now an aunt to 18 nieces and nephews. That number increased when my youngest brother tied the knot.
  • I enjoy my own company immensely and have always been my own best friend.
  • I LOVE people and I talk to strangers daily.
  • I’m terrified of dogs and want nothing to do with cats.
  • Barnes & Noble or any good bookstore is a slice of heaven on earth for me.  You can find me there at least once a week with a stack of magazines and books.  
  • Reality TV is a weekly indulgence on shows like; Million Dollar Listing, Shark Tank, Married At First Sight, Guys Grocery Game, Diner’s, Drive-In’s and Dives etc and Saturday mornings are for watching the Food Network in this order; The Pioneer Woman, Trisha’s Southern Kitchen, The Kitchen, Valerie’s Home Cooking and Giada Entertains.
  • Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Before you go, read some of my most popular posts:

Being Number Two Is Not Okay

Biblical Submission Works

Accept Him For Who He Is Or Leave Him Alone

Hot Car, Hot Guy, Looks Or Money?

 Do You Choose The One?

Is It Stupid To Date With Marriage On The Mind?

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Thanks for stopping by…

{ 9 comments… read them below or add one }

Vickie Munton February 14, 2014

Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to me too! <3
Stopping by from the #SITSBlogging community–
Happy to meet you!


Yvonne Chase February 14, 2014

Thanks for stopping by Vickie. Lovely to meet another sister in Christ. I love how God connects his daughters. God bless you!


Courtney Conover March 29, 2014

Hi, Yvonne! It’s Courtney from The Brown Girl with Long Hair blog, stopping by to check out your site. Thank you for visiting earlier today — and commenting. 🙂

(I love me some chia seeds, flax seeds, quinoa and steel cut oats, too, and have all three everyday. The Hubs makes The BEST steel cut oatmeal for my son and me every morning — with chia seeds mixed in and a touch of agave nectar…YUM-O!!)

Enjoy your weekend!


Yvonne Chase March 29, 2014

Hey Courtney,

Thanks for returning the love. I start my day with a bowl of steel cut oatmeal w/flax seeds, raisins, cinnamon, nutmeg and a drizzle of almond milk. Yummers! I add chia seeds to my water and I cook quinoa and toss it into my salads etc. I think I’m going to be a nutrition coach in my next life.

Have a wonderful weekend!


robincharmagne April 10, 2014

“I don’t want them coming out of my body.” Glad I’m not the only one. Folks give you the side eye when you don’t want or in my case never wanted kids. Thanks for sharing!


Yvonne Chase April 10, 2014


I used to say I wanted to have my own children for a long time because that’s what you’re supposed to say to avoid the side eye. I LOVE children and will be happy to adopt one day real soon.

Thanks for stopping by!


Maggielola April 11, 2014

OMG we have something in common: I’m terrified of dogs as well! I came here from Twitter via the “Woman to Woman- Must Read” mention and can’t wait to tour your blog. 🙂


Yvonne Chase April 11, 2014

Hey Maggielola,

Thanks for stopping by. Yea…no dogs for me. Grew up with 2 dogs in the Bahamas and was afraid of them too. Perhaps I’ll get over it one day…or not:-)


Michele Morin April 30, 2018

I love your voice whenever I encounter it out there in the great wide world of blogging!


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