Are You a Virtuous Woman?

by Yvonne Chase on March 8, 2011

Last week while surfing the net, I read about a young lady who died after butt injection surgery and wondered to myself, what is the obsession w/bug butts that we are now putting our lives in danger to get one?

Then over the weekend while socializing at the NAACP Image Awards after party my eyes landed on a young lady whose dress was so short that if she sneezed, you would see her reproductive organs.  You couldn’t tell her she wasn’t the cutest thing in the building meanwhile she looked like a whore that should be tricking on Sunset Blvd.  Whatever happened to leaving a little somethin’ to the imagination?

Then on Sunday while watching the season finale of Basketball Wives (there’s not one wife on the show), I gagged at Evelyn wearing lingerie on a first date w/a man who is not her husband then cussing and fighting with Tami who slugged at her after finding out that she slept w/her then husband.

Since when did being a whore w/a potty mouth become the way to be and why are women calling each other and answering to the “B” word with such ease…you know, the one that rhymes with witch? I don’t know about you but I’m scared for the young women of today who are raising themselves via reality TV and music videos.  Fathers are absent from homes and today’s grandmother is 32 years young.

Today, as we celebrate the 100th anniversary of International Women’s Day, I wanted to share with you Gods ideal woman and wife as outlined in Proverbs 31:10-31.  Happy Women’s Day!

Proverbs 31:10-31 (Amplified Bible)

10A capable, intelligent, and [a]virtuous woman–who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.(A)

11The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of [honest] gain or need of [dishonest] spoil.

12She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her.

13She seeks out wool and flax and works with willing hands [to develop it].

14She is like the merchant ships loaded with foodstuffs; she brings her household’s food from a far [country].

15She rises while it is yet night and gets [spiritual] food for her household and assigns her maids their tasks.(B)

16She considers a [new] field before she buys or accepts it [expanding prudently and not courting neglect of her present duties by assuming other duties]; with her savings [of time and strength] she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard. [S. of Sol. 8:12.]

17She girds herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] and makes her arms strong and firm.

18She tastes and sees that her gain from work [with and for God] is good; her lamp goes not out, but it burns on continually through the night [of trouble, privation, or sorrow, warning away fear, doubt, and distrust].

19She lays her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20She opens her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy [whether in body, mind, or spirit].

21She fears not the snow for her family, for all her household are doubly clothed in scarlet.(C)

22She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry. Her clothing is of linen, pure and fine, and of purple [such as that of which the clothing of the priests and the hallowed cloths of the temple were made].(D)

23Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.(E)

24She makes fine linen garments and leads others to buy them; she delivers to the merchants girdles [or sashes that free one up for service].

25Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; she rejoices over the future [the latter day or time to come, knowing that she and her family are in readiness for it]!

26She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].

27She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.(F)

28Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, fortunate, and to be envied); and her husband boasts of and praises her, [saying],

29[b]Many daughters have done virtuously, nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.

30Charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain [because it is not lasting], but a woman who reverently and worshipfully fears the Lord, she shall be praised!

31Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city]!

Something to think about and aspire to!

Eustace L. Greaves, Jr. March 8, 2011

Dear Yvonne:

Thank you for this timely blog post. However, let’s not forget men must do their part also. For which wife is happiest but the one who is eternally yoked to a man of like qualities?

Keep up the great work!

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