Dating

Face It And End It Otherwise You Will Repeat It

by Yvonne Chase

Face It And End It Rule Our Lives Last night while watching Being Mary Jane, I was reminded of the importance of knowing our family dynamic, patterns, and behaviors. When we know what we come from, specifically, the negative dynamic that rules our lives, we can face it and end it. Much Of It Has […]

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Peter Wants A Wife And Rachel Needed A Proposal From Anybody

by Yvonne Chase

She Picked The Wrong Guy It is 11:13 pm and I just finished watching the three-hour season finale of the Bachelorette. I need to #ReclaimMyTime. Our first black Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay got what she wanted; a fiancé and his name is Bryan Abasolo, which I predicted here in this post. The general consensus tonight on […]

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I Didn’t Mean To Marry My Parent But It Looks Like I Did

by Yvonne Chase

Did You Marry Your Parent? Last week while talking to a gentleman about a few challenges in his marriage, I asked him if he married his mother. Studies show men marry their mothers and daughters marry their fathers.  Qualities Of Her Father Men tend to marry a woman that looks like his mother and has […]

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Hard Conversations Today Make Life Easier Today

by Yvonne Chase

Run From Hard Conversations Call me crazy but I’m a HUGE fan of hard conversations and that’s why I’m a HUGE fan of Peter on The Bachelorette. Many of us run from hard conversations. We worry about the outcome. And of course we wonder what they will think of us; she’s needy, crazy, starting trouble, […]

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Single Men, Handle Your Overbearing Mother Before You Find A Wife

by Yvonne Chase

Meet The Parents On last night’s episode of The Bachelorette, Rachel went home with the four remaining men to meet the parents and family. This post is about her meeting with Bryan’s family and his overbearing mother in Miami. Now if you’ve been reading my posts, Bryan is a chiropractor who has a strong connection […]

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Dysfunction, Family Matters, And The Bachelorette

by Yvonne Chase

Marry Their Family They say when you marry, you not only marry the person, you marry their family too and their dysfunction. Rachel Lindsay, our current Bachelorette is in the final stages of finding a match and now it’s time to get to know the families of the four men left standing. One of those […]

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Rachel Lindsay Knows How To Date And You Should Follow Her Lead

by Yvonne Chase

The First Black Bachelorette I like the way Rachel Lindsay dates. Every single woman should follow her lead. Who is Rachel? She, Rachel Lindsay, is the first Black Bachelorette.  Find The Love Of Her Life The Bachelorette has been around for 2385 seasons (I’m being sarcastic) it’s been around a very long time and the […]

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Faithful Are The Wounds Of A Friend Who Corrects

by Yvonne Chase

“If you’re watching a friend head to the altar with someone awful, do you step in?” Pretend All Is Well That was the question posed by the New York Post on Twitter. My response was, yes, if I know about it. Sometimes you don’t know until after. Been there. People pretend all is well when it […]

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DNA Does Not Guarantee A Wedding Invitation

by Yvonne Chase

Checking It Twice Wedding season is upon us. Brides and grooms are making their guests lists and checking it twice to make sure they include DNA aka family members and to make sure they didn’t forget anyone. They’re also looking at it closely to see which names they can cut to keep the guest list from […]

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Change Your Last Name To His Last Name When You Say I Do

by Yvonne Chase

Change Her Last Name Do you think it’s necessary for a woman to change her last name? That was the question posed on Twitter by Married At First Sight. One of the participants Ashley is not on board with changing her last name. While she likes her husband’s last name, she also likes her last […]

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