Living Single

See You In September!

by Yvonne Chase
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Believe The Truth Not All Women

by Yvonne Chase

Who came up with the statement, “Believe all women?” I believe the #MeToo movement initiated it. Essentially it means a man is presumed to be guilty whenever a woman claims abuse. Innocent until proven guilty does not exist. Does anyone else see how dangerous this is? How can you believe all women when women lie? […]

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Pee In The Dating Pool Leads To Frozen Eggs

by Yvonne Chase

“I have to go back into the dating pool and I’m pretty sure there’s pee in it.” The inspiration for this post comes from that line which you can hear in an advertisement for the TV show 90-Day Fiancé that I do not watch. Last week on Twitter, there was a conversation about women freezing […]

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Alpha Males And Narcissists Propose In Six Months

by Yvonne Chase

He said, “In 2022, the man who pays for the first date, knows what he wants, and proposes in six months is the real alpha male. To him go the spoils, the women, and the happiest children. If he hasn’t proposed within six months, he is unlikely to. Move on.” Here’s my spin on it; […]

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Thinking About Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

The new season of Married at First Sight, Season 11 is here from the city known for bourbon, beignets, and Mardi Gras; New Orleans. It got me thinking about marriage. Will I marry? I have no idea. Is it something I would like? Sure, why not! Romantic love is a beautiful thing, however, I’m glad […]

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Finding Love Behind The COVID-19 Mask

by Yvonne Chase

Last week I read a post by my sister in Christ Michele Morin about an unveiled life. In her post, she mentioned dating with masks. Here’s what she said, “What in the world,” I wondered, “would it be like to date with mandatory masking? Has Cosmo addressed this in an article yet?” I smiled beneath […]

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Get Your Knee Off Our Neck

by Yvonne Chase

For the last couple of weeks, we’ve been talking about systemic racism and white privilege. In my last post, Your Silence Speaks Volumes, blogger Lauren Sparks agreed to continue the conversation with me and Calvonia Radford, another blogger. She sent me a series of questions which she turned into a blog post titled A Conversation […]

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Silence Speaks Volumes

by Yvonne Chase

“Brothers and sisters of color, how do you wish your white brothers and sisters would respond when cases of racial injustice, violence, and murder hit the news?” That question was posed by my white sister in Christ to Twitter in the wake of #GeorgeFloyd being murdered.” Before I get into this post, let me say […]

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Protector, Defender, and Truth Teller

by Yvonne Chase

I learned something about myself during this pandemic. Well here’s the thing, I always knew this about myself, however, I never knew what to call it. One day while watching a YouTube video, two sisters were sharing what they like about each other when one sister said, “My favorite thing about my sister is she’s […]

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Easter Sunday Is For Staying Home

by Yvonne Chase

I never go to church on Easter Sunday…never! You read that right. This Christian woman who loves Jesus with all her heart intentionally stays home on Easter Sunday. Listen, I go to a megachurch in Brooklyn where on any given Sunday, the line swings around the corner and up the block. It’s even worse on […]

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