Living Single

Christmas Is The Most Stressful Time Of The Year

by Yvonne Chase

Stressful Time Of The Year I don’t ever recall doing a Christmas post here in this space, however, that changes today because of a conversation I’ve been having lately with singles. For me, Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year yet for many it’s the most stressful time of the year. If you […]

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Tommy And I Are To The End Kind Of People

by Yvonne Chase

Tommy Got Real On the recent episode of Ready To Love, the host, Nephew Tommy got real with the men about real love. The majority on Twitter loved every word. I loved every word to, however, there’s a caveat. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after. P.S. there’s a lil cuss word in it […]

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Wives Are Not A Second Womb To Birth Boys Into Men

by Yvonne Chase

Spirit Of A Wife It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve been in this space. I was celebrating my birthday, then there was Thanksgiving and now I’m back. Sometime last year, I wrote a post about a pastor who places the blame of being single on the woman’s shoulders. Here’s what he said: “Too […]

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Thank You, But We Are Not A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Thank You The title of this post, thank you, but we’re not a match, are words every single person should have at the ready otherwise you stand a strong chance of leading someone on like Aaron does with Melinda on Ready To Love. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after…  Thanksgiving Spread Melinda […]

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Ready To Love And Ready For Love Are Very Different

by Yvonne Chase

Ready To Love And Ready For Love Ready to Love and Ready for Love are two horses of a very different color even though it doesn’t seem that way to most. On the new show, Ready to Love, airing on OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network) sexy, successful, grown black men and women in their 30’s and […]

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Oneness And Singleness Go Together Like Oil And Water

by Yvonne Chase

Marriage Is About Oneness A couple of weeks ago, financial expert and best selling author Suze Orman joined Wendy Williams on her show for a special money segment of Ask Wendy. I’m a huge fan of the wisdom Suze spills on money, however, I cannot cosign the advice she gave to a woman who is […]

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Making Out Is A Bad Idea Even Though It’s Not Condemned

by Yvonne Chase

It’s A Bad Idea Five years ago, I wrote a post titled Should We Be Making Out? directed at Christian singles. We all know what making out is right? For those of you that don’t, it involves passionate kissing that leads to hands going in places they shouldn’t and for many, sex is the end result. My […]

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Broken Children Living in Adult Bodies Create Broken Relationships

by Yvonne Chase

Broken Children The other day while scrolling Instagram, my eyes landed on the following image and caption below about broken children. It really spoke to me because day in and day out, I receive emails from random readers about the brokenness in their marriages. At the root of much of their pain is unaddressed stuff […]

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No One Really Wants To Be Single For A Lifetime

by Yvonne Chase

Single For A Lifetime I don’t know anyone who wants to be single for a lifetime. Do you? What I mean is, I don’t know anyone who wants to go through life without romantic love. I’ve met a whole lot of people from all walks of life and to date, I have never met a […]

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I Was Called To Marry HIM

by Yvonne Chase

Called To Marriage How did you know God called you to be married? How does one know if they are called to marriage, aside from a desire to have children and raise a family? Those questions came to mind after reading a comment on my previous post, God Has A Chosen Person For You To Marry. […]

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