Living Single

Unmarried Men Are Wimping Out By Being Commitment-Phobes

by Yvonne Chase

Unmarried Men And Marriage Sometime last week on Instagram, rapper T.I. shared the following about unmarried men and why they don’t marry. This is the same man who said marriage is a distraction so I guess I shouldn’t be surprised he agrees with the author. Here’s why she says men don’t marry today: Because there’s nothing in […]

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Happy Marriages Are Taboo And A Dirty Little Secret

by Yvonne Chase

Happy In Their Marriage Sometime last year, I wrote a post asking married people to tell me what they love about being married. I wanted to hear stories of couples that are happy in their marriage. It’s important that single people hear about and see a side of marriage that’s not popular; the happy side. Marriage […]

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Bill Cosby, Andrea Constand And A Couple Of Rules For Living

by Yvonne Chase

Bringing Down Bill Cosby Harvey Weinstein Russell Simmons Vince Cirrincione Morgan Freeman Bill Cosby #MeToo Movement That is just a short list of men whose lives have been exposed during the Hollywood shakedown that created the #MeToo movement. On Friday night, I watched an interview with Andrea Constand, the woman who brought down Bill Cosby. That […]

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How To Keep A Man In One Easy Step

by Yvonne Chase

Geared Towards Women If you walk by your local newsstand and flip through the pages of magazines like Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Allure and other magazines geared towards women, you are bound to find an article with tips on how to keep a man. A Title Or Three Watch any romantic comedy and you’re sure to learn more tips […]

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FOSO And FOMO – One Is Good And The Other Is Bad

by Yvonne Chase

Water Your Grass In my last post, I told you to water your own grass. This post is all about FOSO but before we get to it, many of you think the grass is greener on the other side. It’s not! If you water your grass, it will be green too. Try it!  Better On The […]

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God Did Not Design Me For Singleness, He Designed Me For Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Design For Singleness “There are many reasons why being alone is not good for us, but the bottom line is that being alone is not ideal to God. The longer you intentionally delay marriage, the longer you’re remaining in a situation that God has deemed, “not good.” Ultimately, we are not designed for singleness, and […]

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Where Did You Get Your Ideas About Marriage?

by Yvonne Chase

Ideas About Marriage Where did you get your ideas about marriage? That was the question on Married At First Sight. Did you get them from your parents, siblings, friends, colleagues, TV etc? Jephte, one of the participants said, “Growing up I didn’t have any marriages that I could look up to or relate to so […]

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Repentance + Forgiveness = Reconciliation And Unity

by Yvonne Chase

True Repentance I wrote a blog post recently for another blog about forgiveness where I talked about the importance of repentance; expressing sincere regret and remorse if we want reconciliation. Is reconciliation even possible without true repentance? Hurts Us I write about forgiveness often because it’s a huge deal to me. It’s such a huge […]

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Mike Pence Would Agree; Hearing From God Is The Key To A Great Single Life

by Yvonne Chase

Prays To God Sometime last month on The View, Joy Behar took a jab at the mental health of Vice President Mike Pence who says he prays to God and waits to hear from him. Joy specifically said, “It’s one thing to talk to Jesus, it’s another thing when Jesus talks to you…that’s called mental illness…hearing voices.” […]

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Nikolas Cruz And Broken Boys Who Become Broken Men

by Yvonne Chase

A Vile Act Changing lanes on the blog today to write about something that changed our world; the shooting in Parkland Florida that killed 17 people. When I heard about it, I was shocked and then when I found out Nikolas Cruz, a 19-year-old student pulled the trigger, I immediately wanted to know why. What could […]

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