Ciara And Russell Wilson Need To Slow It Down

by Yvonne Chase on July 18, 2015

I’d Like To See Her Thriving Solo
The other night on Twitter while watching and tweeting the ESPY Awards, one of my followers asked, do you prefer Ciara with Future or Russell Wilson?” My answer was I prefer her with neither.  I’d like to see her thriving solo.  Doesn’t she need time to regroup after her last relationship? Word on the street is he cheated and that’s why the relationship ended.

Our Relationship Had Nothing To Do With Cheating
He insists he didn’t cheat and is mad at her for letting that story live in the media.  He says, “Our relationship had nothing to do with cheating.  We grew apart.  I called [the engagement] off long before any cheating rumors came out. I was like, ‘This isn’t going to work out.”

There Will Be Another Relationship
I don’t know why their relationship ended but here’s what I know for sure, taking a break is a must before starting a new relationship. Going from one relationship to the next is a no-no.  You need time to dispose of every negative feeling from the last relationship.  You need time to assess what happened.  You need time to ask yourself a very important question: What can I work on in me and in my life before my next relationship? Because let’s face it, at some point, there will be another relationship. 

  • Did something major happen in this relationship that might require a few counseling/coaching sessions?
  • Is my mind clear?
  • Are my emotions in tact?
  • Is my heart healed or hurt? If it’s hurt, how will I heal it?
  • Are there emotions I need to release to decrease my chances of meeting the same type of guy?

There’s Power In Being Single In Between
There are so many questions to ask in between relationships that if not answered could cost you your next relationship and the one after that and the one after that.  Feel me?  There is power in being single in between and I want Ciara and every single woman to own that power and use it to her advantage.

Cut From A Totally Different Cloth
Russell seems to be cut from a totally different cloth than Future but he may not be.  He may be the same type of guy.  Ciara can think and reason away how different he is from Future to make herself feel good about being with him which is what most women do.  Thinking differently about her new relationship isn’t enough to make it better.

Sure To Rear Their Ugly Head
Totally releasing all of the old negative emotions (pain, anger, resentment, hate etc) that are deeply stored away and sure to rear their ugly head cleans the slate and gives her a fresh new start.  Russell needs to take a break too since the ink hasn’t completely dried on his divorce papers.  He was married in 2012 and that union ended two years later in 2014.  Allegedly his ex-wife cheated on him.

Slow It All The Way Down
Between the drama with Future and Ciara over why their relationship ended, Future’s issue with Ciara introducing their son to her new relationship so soon and Russell’s recent divorce, I say they need to slow it all the way down.  What say you? A male friend who knows Ciara well and I were talking about this last night.  When I told him I wouldn’t be surprised if Russell popped the question before the year is out, he said, “That’s way too soon.”

Something to think about…

What say you? Are Ciara and Russell moving too fast? Is time off needed between relationships? How soon is too soon to introduce children to a relationship?

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AwesomelyOZ July 21, 2015

I agree with you, time to heal is very important. I had to do this after my divorce and it definitely took years to get to a point where I could open up and be with someone. By the time my boyfriend started courting me, I was in a great place and not with all the heavy baggage from that marriage. There will always be some form of carry on since we share a son but nothing like the initial period. To this day I don’t know where I was at that time mentally and can’t imagine what Ciara is suppressing as well as her partner Russell. Great post Yvonne!! Have a great one and take care! -Iva
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