Bad Mouthing An Ex Can Make It Difficult To Start Anew

by Yvonne Chase

Never Bad Mouth An Ex Be careful how you leave relationships. How you leave determines whether you can come back. Yvonne Chase.  One of my rules in life is to never bad mouth an ex and to leave relationships with grace and on as much of a good note as humanly possible.  I Chose Him Bad […]

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White Men, Black Love And Interracial Dating

by Yvonne Chase

Irony Of It All Over the weekend while watching season two of the docu-series Black Love with my Twitter peeps, a white man showed up in my DMs. The irony of it all. Strong Attraction To Black Women Here it is I’m watching a show about black couples; how they met and the nuances of their […]

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How To Keep A Man In One Easy Step

by Yvonne Chase

Geared Towards Women If you walk by your local newsstand and flip through the pages of magazines like Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Allure and other magazines geared towards women, you are bound to find an article with tips on how to keep a man. A Title Or Three Watch any romantic comedy and you’re sure to learn more tips […]

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FOSO And FOMO – One Is Good And The Other Is Bad

by Yvonne Chase

Water Your Grass In my last post, I told you to water your own grass. This post is all about FOSO but before we get to it, many of you think the grass is greener on the other side. It’s not! If you water your grass, it will be green too. Try it!  Better On The […]

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Toilet Paper, Dating And The Paradox Of Choice

by Yvonne Chase

Couldn’t Deal The other day, I went to CVS to buy toilet paper and almost left with nothing. There were so many options and so many different price points that I just couldn’t deal. Charmin, Cottonelle, Scott, Seventh Generation, Angel Soft, Quilted Northern and the CVS brand were all staring at me and that’s not the […]

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God Did Not Design Me For Singleness, He Designed Me For Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Design For Singleness “There are many reasons why being alone is not good for us, but the bottom line is that being alone is not ideal to God. The longer you intentionally delay marriage, the longer you’re remaining in a situation that God has deemed, “not good.” Ultimately, we are not designed for singleness, and […]

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Where Did You Get Your Ideas About Marriage?

by Yvonne Chase

Ideas About Marriage Where did you get your ideas about marriage? That was the question on Married At First Sight. Did you get them from your parents, siblings, friends, colleagues, TV etc? Jephte, one of the participants said, “Growing up I didn’t have any marriages that I could look up to or relate to so […]

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Satan Wins Every Time Divorce Papers Are Signed

by Yvonne Chase

No Longer Feels Loved What makes you feel loved? I’m asking because, on the recent Married To Medicine reunion show, we learned Dr. Simone filed divorce papers to end her marriage of twenty-one years to her husband Cecil because she no longer feels loved and appreciated. Did Satan win? Simone says she can’t remember the last time […]

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Repentance + Forgiveness = Reconciliation And Unity

by Yvonne Chase

True Repentance I wrote a blog post recently for another blog about forgiveness where I talked about the importance of repentance; expressing sincere regret and remorse if we want reconciliation. Is reconciliation even possible without true repentance? Hurts Us I write about forgiveness often because it’s a huge deal to me. It’s such a huge […]

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Mike Pence Would Agree; Hearing From God Is The Key To A Great Single Life

by Yvonne Chase

Prays To God Sometime last month on The View, Joy Behar took a jab at the mental health of Vice President Mike Pence who says he prays to God and waits to hear from him. Joy specifically said, “It’s one thing to talk to Jesus, it’s another thing when Jesus talks to you…that’s called mental illness…hearing voices.” […]

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