Wives Are Not A Second Womb To Birth Boys Into Men

by Yvonne Chase

Spirit Of A Wife It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve been in this space. I was celebrating my birthday, then there was Thanksgiving and now I’m back. Sometime last year, I wrote a post about a pastor who places the blame of being single on the woman’s shoulders. Here’s what he said: “Too […]

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Thank You, But We Are Not A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Thank You The title of this post, thank you, but we’re not a match, are words every single person should have at the ready otherwise you stand a strong chance of leading someone on like Aaron does with Melinda on Ready To Love. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after…  Thanksgiving Spread Melinda […]

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Ready To Love And Ready For Love Are Very Different

by Yvonne Chase

Ready To Love And Ready For Love Ready to Love and Ready for Love are two horses of a very different color even though it doesn’t seem that way to most. On the new show, Ready to Love, airing on OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network) sexy, successful, grown black men and women in their 30’s and […]

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Women Get On My Last Nerve

by Yvonne Chase

Last Nerve Actually, women don’t get on my last nerve, I’m a champion of women and know we can accomplish so much more together than we can apart, however, after reading this post you will hopefully understand the title. People Listen To You Okay, this post came about after I got kicked out of the […]

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Father Figures Figure Into Who We Date And Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Sobering Thought What kind of father did you/do you have? Are you aware that who he is and your relationship with him figures heavily into the men you date and the one you eventually marry? It’s a sobering thought that many of us never address. They say every woman marries her father. Did you? Romantic […]

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Oneness And Singleness Go Together Like Oil And Water

by Yvonne Chase

Marriage Is About Oneness A couple of weeks ago, financial expert and best selling author Suze Orman joined Wendy Williams on her show for a special money segment of Ask Wendy. I’m a huge fan of the wisdom Suze spills on money, however, I cannot cosign the advice she gave to a woman who is […]

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Making Out Is A Bad Idea Even Though It’s Not Condemned

by Yvonne Chase

It’s A Bad Idea Five years ago, I wrote a post titled Should We Be Making Out? directed at Christian singles. We all know what making out is right? For those of you that don’t, it involves passionate kissing that leads to hands going in places they shouldn’t and for many, sex is the end result. My […]

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Broken Children Living in Adult Bodies Create Broken Relationships

by Yvonne Chase

Broken Children The other day while scrolling Instagram, my eyes landed on the following image and caption below about broken children. It really spoke to me because day in and day out, I receive emails from random readers about the brokenness in their marriages. At the root of much of their pain is unaddressed stuff […]

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Who Pays On A Date Is NOT A Complicated Question

by Yvonne Chase

It’s Not Complicated Sunday, while reading The Wall Street Journal, I ran across an article titled Who Pays On A Date? That’s Still A Complicated Question. The article opened with this scenario: Elliott Katz believes a man should treat on a date. But when he pulled out his wallet at the ticket counter of a […]

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Marriage Is Like A Box Of Chocolates

by Yvonne Chase

Not In A Million Years Last November, I wrote a post titled, Sexless Marriages Are Not Pleasing To God. I never shared why I wrote that post. Every post in this space is inspired by God and written out of my experience. I once dated a guy who was in a sexless marriage. Not in a […]

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