Christian singles

Making Out Is A Bad Idea Even Though It’s Not Condemned

by Yvonne Chase

It’s A Bad Idea Five years ago, I wrote a post titled Should We Be Making Out? directed at Christian singles. We all know what making out is right? For those of you that don’t, it involves passionate kissing that leads to hands going in places they shouldn’t and for many, sex is the end result. My […]

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I Was Called To Marry HIM

by Yvonne Chase

Called To Marriage How did you know God called you to be married? How does one know if they are called to marriage, aside from a desire to have children and raise a family? Those questions came to mind after reading a comment on my previous post, God Has A Chosen Person For You To Marry. […]

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He Must Be A Christian Was Drilled Into Her Head Yet It’s Not Enough

by Yvonne Chase

Drilled Into Her Head Recently, I had a detailed conversation with a friend about marriage amongst Christians. She married at a young age. The only criteria drilled into her head when choosing someone to marry was he must be a Christian. Well, the man she married was indeed a Christian and even better, they met at and […]

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Speed Dating With The Holy Spirit

by Yvonne Chase

Share My Faith Earlier today, I saw a question on Twitter that asked, “Should Christian singles use speed dating?” My short answer in 140 characters or less was, Absolutely!” If anybody should use speed dating, it ought to be Christian singles.  Why not? I have fond memories of my time speed dating.  I sat across from […]

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Church, Sex, Virgins And Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Remain A Virgin Until Marriage One day during my daily web crawl, I ran across an article on Cosmopolitan magazine written by a Christian woman titled, I Stayed A Virgin Until Marriage, I Couldn’t Have Sex With My Husband.  How she grew up and what she was taught about sex before marriage led to her […]

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Should We Be Making Out?

by Yvonne Chase

Headed To The Altar Over the weekend while relaxing at the beach, I pulled out one of my many relationship books.  The reader in me always has a couple of books in my bag.  This one was written by a Christian author and his wife for engaged Christian couples headed to the altar.  As I […]

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Christian Singles Chat Rewind: Let’s Make Out?

by Yvonne Chase

Eating Face? Tonight’s Christian singles chat was all about making out or as one participant calls it, eating face.  I’ve never ever heard it called that.  I’ve heard sucking face, tonsil hockey and swapping spit.  Eating face? That’s a new one for me. Kissing And Petting We tackled the question, should Christian singles be making […]

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Christian Singles Chat Rewind: Better Celibate Than Sorry

by Yvonne Chase

Abstaining From All Sexual Relations Last night I led the first Christian singles chat on Twitter and I would say God was pleased.  I believe he would say, well done, good and faithful servant.  We talked about living a celibate life; what that means and how it looks.  The general consensus was, living a celibate […]

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Mingling on ChristianMingle Doesn’t Mean He’s a Christian

by Yvonne Chase

Bad Man – Good Site? Earlier today while surfing the net, I ran across a story about a bad man on a “Good” Internet dating site.  According to the NY Daily News, Sean Patrick Banks, an unemployed 37-year-old from Del Mar, allegedly used the website ChristianMingle.com to meet a woman in November police say he […]

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Are You A Naive Nancy or Gullible Gloria?

by Yvonne Chase

Matchmaking Operation Deborah Cooper, a relationship advice columnist asks the question; “Does the black church keep black women single? The question I want to ask Ms. Cooper before I address a few points from the article is this: Since when did the church become a matchmaking operation? Now onto the few points I want to discuss: Cooper […]

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