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Wives Are Not A Second Womb To Birth Boys Into Men

by Yvonne Chase

Spirit Of A Wife It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve been in this space. I was celebrating my birthday, then there was Thanksgiving and now I’m back. Sometime last year, I wrote a post about a pastor who places the blame of being single on the woman’s shoulders. Here’s what he said: “Too […]

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Thank You, But We Are Not A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Thank You The title of this post, thank you, but we’re not a match, are words every single person should have at the ready otherwise you stand a strong chance of leading someone on like Aaron does with Melinda on Ready To Love. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after…  Thanksgiving Spread Melinda […]

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Father Figures Figure Into Who We Date And Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Sobering Thought What kind of father did you/do you have? Are you aware that who he is and your relationship with him figures heavily into the men you date and the one you eventually marry? It’s a sobering thought that many of us never address. They say every woman marries her father. Did you? Romantic […]

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Who Pays On A Date Is NOT A Complicated Question

by Yvonne Chase

It’s Not Complicated Sunday, while reading The Wall Street Journal, I ran across an article titled Who Pays On A Date? That’s Still A Complicated Question. The article opened with this scenario: Elliott Katz believes a man should treat on a date. But when he pulled out his wallet at the ticket counter of a […]

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I Was Called To Marry HIM

by Yvonne Chase

Called To Marriage How did you know God called you to be married? How does one know if they are called to marriage, aside from a desire to have children and raise a family? Those questions came to mind after reading a comment on my previous post, God Has A Chosen Person For You To Marry. […]

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Toilet Paper, Dating And The Paradox Of Choice

by Yvonne Chase

Couldn’t Deal The other day, I went to CVS to buy toilet paper and almost left with nothing. There were so many options and so many different price points that I just couldn’t deal. Charmin, Cottonelle, Scott, Seventh Generation, Angel Soft, Quilted Northern and the CVS brand were all staring at me and that’s not the […]

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Missing Tile Syndrome Ruins Our Single Lives And Marriages

by Yvonne Chase

Undermines Our Happiness Earlier today, I watched a fascinating video where I learned about the Missing Tile Syndrome. It’s a real thing that undermines our happiness.  Essentially, the video asks, “Where is your focus? Is your focus on what’s missing in your life or is it on what’s present?”  Miserable Situation Many singles focus on the relationship we think we […]

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5 Ways The Church Can Prepare Single Men To Be Excellent Husbands

by Yvonne Chase

Prepare Men To Be Husbands I saw a post on Instagram that said, “If only the church would prepare men to be husbands as much as they strive to prepare women to be wives” and then this post came to mind. The author is correct! Churches and people as a whole do the most to […]

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Cheap Sex, Blow Up Dolls, And The Decline Of Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Cheap Sex Last week, one of my male friends and I talked extensively about sex in marriage and what God intends. We also talked about all the cheap sex singles are having and all the sex married people aren’t having. I wrote a blog post about the latter that I will publish later this week. Hold on […]

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Ruth Graham, Dating A Game Changer And Transparency

by Yvonne Chase

Security And Men Today I woke up early and watched Joyce Meyer. At the end of her broadcast, she sat down with Ruth Graham; daughter of famed evangelist Billy Graham and his wife by the same name. During the conversation, I learned something about Ruth I never knew. Ruth felt abandoned by her father when […]

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