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Alpha Males And Narcissists Propose In Six Months

by Yvonne Chase

He said, “In 2022, the man who pays for the first date, knows what he wants, and proposes in six months is the real alpha male. To him go the spoils, the women, and the happiest children. If he hasn’t proposed within six months, he is unlikely to. Move on.” Here’s my spin on it; […]

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Finding Love Behind The COVID-19 Mask

by Yvonne Chase

Last week I read a post by my sister in Christ Michele Morin about an unveiled life. In her post, she mentioned dating with masks. Here’s what she said, “What in the world,” I wondered, “would it be like to date with mandatory masking? Has Cosmo addressed this in an article yet?” I smiled beneath […]

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Different And Unique Person Not Better!

by Yvonne Chase

A couple of weeks ago I met up with my classmate who was also my scene partner. We became so close that he calls me his black mom and I call him my white son. So as moms do, I wanted to find out about his love life. I met the woman who is now […]

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Wives Are Not A Second Womb To Birth Boys Into Men

by Yvonne Chase

Spirit Of A Wife It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve been in this space. I was celebrating my birthday, then there was Thanksgiving and now I’m back. Sometime last year, I wrote a post about a pastor who places the blame of being single on the woman’s shoulders. Here’s what he said: “Too […]

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Thank You, But We Are Not A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Thank You The title of this post, thank you, but we’re not a match, are words every single person should have at the ready otherwise you stand a strong chance of leading someone on like Aaron does with Melinda on Ready To Love. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after…  Thanksgiving Spread Melinda […]

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Father Figures Figure Into Who We Date And Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Sobering Thought What kind of father did you/do you have? Are you aware that who he is and your relationship with him figures heavily into the men you date and the one you eventually marry? It’s a sobering thought that many of us never address. They say every woman marries her father. Did you? Romantic […]

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Who Pays On A Date Is NOT A Complicated Question

by Yvonne Chase

It’s Not Complicated Sunday, while reading The Wall Street Journal, I ran across an article titled Who Pays On A Date? That’s Still A Complicated Question. The article opened with this scenario: Elliott Katz believes a man should treat on a date. But when he pulled out his wallet at the ticket counter of a […]

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I Was Called To Marry HIM

by Yvonne Chase

Called To Marriage How did you know God called you to be married? How does one know if they are called to marriage, aside from a desire to have children and raise a family? Those questions came to mind after reading a comment on my previous post, God Has A Chosen Person For You To Marry. […]

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Toilet Paper, Dating And The Paradox Of Choice

by Yvonne Chase

Couldn’t Deal The other day, I went to CVS to buy toilet paper and almost left with nothing. There were so many options and so many different price points that I just couldn’t deal. Charmin, Cottonelle, Scott, Seventh Generation, Angel Soft, Quilted Northern and the CVS brand were all staring at me and that’s not the […]

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Missing Tile Syndrome Ruins Our Single Lives And Marriages

by Yvonne Chase

Undermines Our Happiness Earlier today, I watched a fascinating video where I learned about the Missing Tile Syndrome. It’s a real thing that undermines our happiness.  Essentially, the video asks, “Where is your focus? Is your focus on what’s missing in your life or is it on what’s present?”  Miserable Situation Many singles focus on the relationship we think we […]

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