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Wives Are Not A Second Womb To Birth Boys Into Men

by Yvonne Chase

Spirit Of A Wife It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve been in this space. I was celebrating my birthday, then there was Thanksgiving and now I’m back. Sometime last year, I wrote a post about a pastor who places the blame of being single on the woman’s shoulders. Here’s what he said: “Too […]

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Thank You, But We Are Not A Match

by Yvonne Chase

Thank You The title of this post, thank you, but we’re not a match, are words every single person should have at the ready otherwise you stand a strong chance of leading someone on like Aaron does with Melinda on Ready To Love. Watch the video below and we’ll talk after…  Thanksgiving Spread Melinda […]

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Father Figures Figure Into Who We Date And Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Sobering Thought What kind of father did you/do you have? Are you aware that who he is and your relationship with him figures heavily into the men you date and the one you eventually marry? It’s a sobering thought that many of us never address. They say every woman marries her father. Did you? Romantic […]

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Broken Children Living in Adult Bodies Create Broken Relationships

by Yvonne Chase

Broken Children The other day while scrolling Instagram, my eyes landed on the following image and caption below about broken children. It really spoke to me because day in and day out, I receive emails from random readers about the brokenness in their marriages. At the root of much of their pain is unaddressed stuff […]

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I Was Called To Marry HIM

by Yvonne Chase

Called To Marriage How did you know God called you to be married? How does one know if they are called to marriage, aside from a desire to have children and raise a family? Those questions came to mind after reading a comment on my previous post, God Has A Chosen Person For You To Marry. […]

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Singleness Is Hard, Often Lonely, And Unwanted

by Yvonne Chase

Lonely And Unwanted Do you come alongside the single people in your life? That was the question posed in an article I read that charged the church and married couples to do just that; come alongside singles. Here’s a bit of what the article said: Singleness is hard, often lonely and unwanted. When you’re married, […]

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Creating In The Kitchen, Six Months Down, And The Way To His Heart

by Yvonne Chase

Love For Food Christmas will be here in the blink of an eye. Can you believe it? I’m not rushing it at all but 2018 is almost over. We’re six months down and we’ve got six more to go. So what have you been up to over the past six months? For me, I’ve been […]

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Bad Mouthing An Ex Can Make It Difficult To Start Anew

by Yvonne Chase

Never Bad Mouth An Ex Be careful how you leave relationships. How you leave determines whether you can come back. Yvonne Chase.  One of my rules in life is to never bad mouth an ex and to leave relationships with grace and on as much of a good note as humanly possible.  I Chose Him Bad […]

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God Did Not Design Me For Singleness, He Designed Me For Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Design For Singleness “There are many reasons why being alone is not good for us, but the bottom line is that being alone is not ideal to God. The longer you intentionally delay marriage, the longer you’re remaining in a situation that God has deemed, “not good.” Ultimately, we are not designed for singleness, and […]

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Remember This And Forget That In 2018

by Yvonne Chase

Powerful Message While going through my old posts, I came across a post that’s relevant no matter the year. Back in 2014, I went to church on New Year’s Eve and heard a powerful message from my pastor titled 3 Things To Remember And 3 Things To Forget. Still Relevant Today As I read the […]

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