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God Did Not Design Me For Singleness, He Designed Me For Marriage

by Yvonne Chase

Design For Singleness “There are many reasons why being alone is not good for us, but the bottom line is that being alone is not ideal to God. The longer you intentionally delay marriage, the longer you’re remaining in a situation that God has deemed, “not good.” Ultimately, we are not designed for singleness, and […]

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Remember This And Forget That In 2018

by Yvonne Chase

Powerful Message While going through my old posts, I came across a post that’s relevant no matter the year. Back in 2014, I went to church on New Year’s Eve and heard a powerful message from my pastor titled 3 Things To Remember And 3 Things To Forget. Still Relevant Today As I read the […]

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3 Bad Reasons To Get Married In 2018

by Yvonne Chase

Lessons To Learn Season 6 of Married at First Sight pulled into the station and I’m watching. For some reason, I can’t seem to get off of this ride. As much as I don’t believe in experimenting with marriage, there are lots of valuable lessons to learn.  Marrying A Complete Stranger Episode one introduced us […]

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Missing Tile Syndrome Ruins Our Single Lives And Marriages

by Yvonne Chase

Undermines Our Happiness Earlier today, I watched a fascinating video where I learned about the Missing Tile Syndrome. It’s a real thing that undermines our happiness.  Essentially, the video asks, “Where is your focus? Is your focus on what’s missing in your life or is it on what’s present?”  Miserable Situation Many singles focus on the relationship we think we […]

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5 Verses That Cause Me To Thrive In My Single Life

by Yvonne Chase

No Easy Task It was no easy task coming up with only five verses that cause me to thrive in my single life because the truth is, there are so many verses that cause me to thrive in life overall. This post came about because God put it on my heart to write it and […]

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Dear Future Husband, I’m Not Writing You A Letter

by Yvonne Chase

I Think It’s Silly I have never written a Dear Future Husband letter. Have you? To be very honest with you, when I saw the hashtag floating around Twitter, I thought it was silly. Sure I read some of the tweets and some were sentimental and very sweet, however, I still think it’s silly to […]

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The Crazy Things People Say And God’s Beautiful Plan For Living Single

by Yvonne Chase

Crazy Things People Say #1 She said; why don’t you have any children? I said: No disrespect to single mothers but I never wanted that to be my story. Crazy Things People Say #2 She said: Why are you single? You should move to Texas. You don’t have much time left to meet someone and […]

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The Most Important Issue In Living Single And Marriage Is…

by Yvonne Chase

The Most Important Issue In Marriage An email titled The Most Important Issue in Marriage landed in my inbox this weekend. Of course, I opened it immediately. I wanted to know what this most important issue is. Don’t you want to know?  Most Important Issue In Life Even though I’m unmarried, I’ve always believed this […]

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7 Ways To Be Comfortable In Your Skin Before You Marry

by Yvonne Chase

Comfortable In My Skin An article titled 10 Reasons To Be Happy With Yourself Before You Marry landed in my inbox recently. Seven of those things stood out to me. This post highlights a bit of what was shared in that post and how I’ve applied these principles to every area of my life. It […]

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A Spouse Is Not Needed To Reach Your Full Potential

by Yvonne Chase

Grow With And Be Better Can you reach your full potential as a person if you never marry?” Cody, one of the husbands on the current season of Married At First Sight doesn’t think you can.  He says, “I don’t think you can fully reach your potential as a person until you find a partner […]

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