Melanie Notkin

Just Pick A Restaurant And Plan The Date Already!

by Yvonne Chase

“Yvonne, you need a man who can teach you something.  Take you some place new.  Plan the date.  Come up with a suggestion.  Pick the restaurant.  You’re always picking, planning and showing them something new.” The Boys Are Not Rising Up My college girlfriend Debbie Smith said those words to me and they came back […]

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Marriage Then Children Or Not And Otherhood

by Yvonne Chase

I love my husband still…13 years later…I love him. He loves me.  He wants children.  I can’t have children and I don’t want children.  If I really love my husband the way I say I do, I have to leave him because he is meant to be a father.  And then I have to think about […]

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